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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Dsquared2 Sneakers - Women Dsquared2 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11555794BI, Marc O'Polo Slip-ons - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Proenza Schouler Slip-ons - rame, Unisa WANDY - High heeled sandals - chili,
Now,Banana Moon Womens Chelseyd Hermes 150Frexc, New Balance WRL420 - Trainers - seed, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sASICS GT-1000 - Stabilty running shoes - mid grey/flash coral, Esprit UMA ZIP BOOTIE - Classic ankle boots - black, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
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Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Tod's Sneakers - Women Tod's Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11564566PW, Bianco BASIC - Sandals - cream,
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Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Blue by Betsey Johnson KALI - High heels - ivory, DKNY CATI - High heeled sandals - black, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Francesco Milano High heeled boots - nero, New Balance 1400 V6 - Competition running shoes - pink/black, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
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