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Evan,

Nike Performance EPIC REACT FLYKNIT - Neutral running shoes - newsprint/black/royal pulse/lava glow, Versus Versace Sneakers - Women Versus Versace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11564579HB, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Hummel SLIMMER STADIL - Trainers - black/blue/red, Le Temps Des Cerises Womens Jump Lowi Royal Blue 018Ecfaz, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Man's/Woman's JBU Cara color eye-catching, Chaco Womens Flip Vibee Electric 632Pdtap, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.adidas Originals NMD_R1 - Trainers - offwhite/red, Munich Sneakers - Women Munich Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446391OC,

Now,El Naturalista STELLA - Wedge sandals - black, Birkenstock BOSTON - Slippers - anthracite, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sKIOMI Ankle boots - black, Patrizia Pepe Sneakers - Women Patrizia Pepe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11297924UE, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Botticelli Limited Sneakers - Women Botticelli Limited Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11169936VM, Esprit OCTAVIA MULE - Mules - navy, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Vaneli Womens Baxiea Multi Darry Print/Match Zip 577Bzawl, DKNY RADLY - High heels - brown,

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    Holly

    Vagabond CAROL - Sandals - black, Gentleman/Lady ALDO Aurella order, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Elisabetta Franchi Sneakers - Women Elisabetta Franchi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11243313WD, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11283133TO, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Max Mara Sneakers - Women Max Mara Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11570876TH, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11528158PA, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Tamaris Ankle boots - navy, Gabor WIDE FIT - Boots - schwarz, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Rose

    L'INTERVALLE ZOLA - Heeled mules - aqua, Skechers Sport HI-LITES - Trainers - rose gold, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Nicholas Kirkwood Sneakers - Women Nicholas Kirkwood Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11366549TE, LEMON JELLY SPLASH - Wellies - yellow mate,
    Carvela Comfort ARABELLA - Peeptoe heels - navy, Camper Womens Right Nina 21735Y Sella Negro(Negro)/Pina Negro 648Bjscc, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11569455VV, L4k3 Sneakers - Women L4k3 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11311032RH, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Lodi EBRO - Classic heels - baltico/oro, Dc Mens Rd Jagw Black/Grey/Yellow 943Pjgzr, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    adidas Originals PW TENNIS HU - Trainers - footwear white/core white, River Island Heeled mules - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Reebok F/S Hi - Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11307540KC, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496166BW, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, New Balance Mens 890 V4N Red Silver 909Vlfbe, ASICS GEL-SONOMA 3 - Trail running shoes - black/dark grey, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Vidorreta Mules - metal arena, Lacoste LEROND - Trainers - light pink/white,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Ruby

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    Kathy

    Worishofer Womens 284D Fuchsia 799Oizka,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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