Carvela Comfort CLAYTON CLAYTON CLAYTON - Mules - gold 37f9d1

Carvela Comfort CLAYTON CLAYTON CLAYTON - Mules - gold 37f9d1

Evan,

Springa Sneakers - Women Springa Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11184726II, Steve Madden PIXEL - Ankle strap ballet pumps - white, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Even&Odd Trainers - grey, Scarpa MOJITO GTX - Hiking shoes - shark, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Lemaré Sneakers - Women Lemaré Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11429528HK, Keys Sneakers - Women Keys Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11555012IN, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Madison Womens Rubane Noir 373Swhan, Jeffrey Campbell NIGHTHAWK - Classic ankle boots - fuchsia/blue/metallic,

Now,Yellow Box Womens Emiliat Navy 729Nhdik, Woden JANE - Trainers - bright white, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPepen Sole Slip-ons - caffe, Gentle Souls Womens Blessie Black Leather 450Aonvu, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialLeather

LiningLeather

InsoleLeather

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeCold padding

Details

Shoe tipRound

Heel typeBlock heel

Shoe fastenerSlip on

PatternPlain

DetailsMoccasin seam

Article numberCAN11A002-F11

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    Rose

    Club Monaco JOWENNA - Trainers - white, Serafini Luxury Sneakers - Women Serafini Luxury Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11512320JB, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11546513CA, Nike Performance AIR ZOOM VAPOR X HC - Multicourt shoes - white/vast grey,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11552993MX, Lowa MAURIA GTX - Walking boots - asphalt/jade, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Ivanka Trump Womens Arinal White/Gold 393Kfimc, Under Armour SPEEDFORM SLINGSHOT 2 - Neutral running shoes - deceit/black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Armani Jeans Womens Snakeprint Heeled Sandal Pearl 312Kipvw, Man's/Woman's Naturalizer Banks High Quality Product, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Anna Field Select High heels - black, KIOMI Classic ankle boots - beige, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Skechers Sneakers - Women Skechers Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11464745UX, Kennel + Schmenger RUBY - Boots - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? DKNY JOSIE - T-bar sandals - black, Adidas Mens Zx Fluxt Navy White 389Qzosw, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11219231HB, Vans OLD SKOOL - Trainers - mole/true white, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Katie Grand Loves Hogan Sneakers - Women Katie Grand Loves Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11270549CA, adidas Originals STAN SMITH - Trainers - footwear white/gold metallic,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11057256GD, Crocs CROCBAND UNISEX - Pool sliders - espresso/khaki, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Rose' A Pois Sneakers - Women Rose' A Pois Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498121CM, adidas Originals SUPERSTAR - Trainers - grey two/clear orange, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 7
    AS

    Kennel + Schmenger CAT - Trainers - schwarz, Birkenstock ARIZONA - Mules - basalt, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.WEEKEND MaxMara NERVOSO - Boots - taback, Peter Kaiser HALINA - High heels - schwarz, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Colors of California Slippers - bordeaux, Castañer AINE - High heels - granate, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

  6. 8
    marymary

    LAB Classic heels - eclat titanio, Anna Field Boots - black, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursSpringa Sneakers - Women Springa Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456772IM, adidas Originals TUBULAR SHADOW - Trainers - clear brown/light brown/core black, .
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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. O'Neill Womens Devan Whiskey 773Tipbx, Man/Woman Saucony Koa TR Inexpensive,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  7. 9
    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Fiore di Lucia Milano ORFEO - Sandals - beige,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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