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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Opening Ceremony Womens Marine Oxfordp Navy Multi 746Uldtv, Dsquared2 Sneakers - Women Dsquared2 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11541197EC, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Shepherd ZARA - Slippers - asphalt, Pepen Sole Cowboy/Biker boots - black,

Now,Moova Womens Mustangp Tdm 543Etajr, Bianco Slip-ons - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sKIOMI Boots - black, Gentlemen/Ladies Ryka Vivid RZX Clearance Special, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialSuede

LiningTextile

InsoleLeather

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeCold padding

Care instructionsTreat with a suitable protector before wear

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Heel typeBlock heel

Shoe fastenerSlip on

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    Rose

    Paradox London Pink CHERIE - Peep toes - blush, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11576393QN, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Vince Camuto Womens Mabina Black 871Pooss, Peter Kaiser LOTTA - Ballet pumps - tundra,

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    Holly

    Khrio' Sneakers - Women Khrio' Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11492376KG, Felmini JOMAR - High-top trainers - tropical, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Emerica Mens The Memphis X Ed Templeton Tan/Blue 770Ohict, Gentlemen/Ladies Reef Stargazer Amoy, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Pier One Boots - nero, Crocs Mens Axleg Ocean/Citrus 350Mdfxd, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Anna Field Over-the-knee boots - mauve, Buscemi Sneakers - Women Buscemi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11473076DW, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Bianco Classic heels - navy blue, Reebok Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11551720BR, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Tbs Mens Evospeed 1 4 Sf Nm Brown 853Aniru, Gabor WIDE FIT - Trainers - corallo, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Sixtyseven NEWAM - Classic ankle boots - red, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11211929QX, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Florsheim Mens Jet Strap Black 083Rrulv, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11541917VM, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Chi Chi London ANNAMARIE - High heels - blush, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11556022AJ, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11282482CT, Fornarina Sneakers - Women Fornarina Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493890LR, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Sanita HEDI OPEN - Clogs - sky, Nike SB PORTMORE II SLR PRM - Trainers - bronze/light brown/particle beige/baroque brown/medium brown, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    Vidorreta Womens Lovei Graphite 035Lnpao, Zign Ballet pumps - red, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Clarks FLORES TULIP - Wedges - black, Steve Madden Womens Bolth Black Leather 156Vbxap,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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    Julia

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