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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11130949UL, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR - Trainers - papyrus/white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Peter Kaiser HILKA - Boots - carbon, My Heels Sneakers - Women My Heels Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11530509AF,

Now,Nature Sneakers - Women Nature Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11251638DI, Easy Spirit Womens Cressiax Gold Synthetic 859Pwubi, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’secco ELAINE - Ankle boots - black, Diadora N.92 - Trainers - white, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialSuede

LiningCombination of leather and textile lining

InsoleLeather

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeCold padding

Care instructionsTreat with a suitable protector before wear

Details

Shoe tipRound

Heel typeFlat

Shoe fastenerSlip on

PatternPlain

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    Rose

    KIOMI Sandals - bronze, Reebok Classic CLUB C 85 - Trainers - pale pink, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Lola Cruz Sneakers - Women Lola Cruz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11479334AO, Skechers Sport D'LITES - Trainers - black/silver/white,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Versace Jeans Sneakers - Women Versace Jeans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11563396RK, L' Autre Chose Sneakers - Women L' Autre Chose Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11487502EG, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Paradox London Pink MADOX - High heeled sandals - silver metallic glitter, Pavement AVA LOOP - Slip-ons - rose, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Reef Womens Sandyu Black/Black 229Rhivj, My Grey Sneakers - Women My Grey Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11489024LP, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Halmanera Sneakers - Women Halmanera Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11370155QG, Carvela GOGO - Sandals - nude, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Pierre Hardy Sneakers - Women Pierre Hardy Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11238568XO, Méliné Sneakers - Women Méliné Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11485879UX, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Brenda Zaro ISNESBO - Ankle boots - blanco, Be Natural Ankle boots - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554765WK, Vans OLD SKOOL - Trainers - mole/true white, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496292SL, KIOMI Slip-ons - pink,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,s.Oliver Ankle boots - ice, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11572788KQ, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Lotto STRATOSPHERE IV - Outdoor tennis shoes - white/green, Lowa LEVANTE GTX QC - Walking boots - anthrazit/türkis, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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  6. 7
    AS

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Pour La Victoire Womens Verdi Black 259Mpudq, Call it Spring MIAMI - High heeled sandals - medium beige,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  8. 9
    Kathy

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    Kathy

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