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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Puma SMASH - High-top trainers - black, Moheda Toffeln ALLY - Sandals - brandy, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Vapormax Light Ii - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11572226VE, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496041AO,

Now,Menbur High heeled sandals - black, Valleverde Sneakers - Women Valleverde Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455997XA, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDune London CAYOTE - Ankle strap ballet pumps - silver, Felmini FAME - High-top trainers - dream white, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Spaziomoda Sneakers - Women Spaziomoda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573035MA, Melvin & Hamilton BETTY - Ankle boots - black, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Copenhagen Ankle boots - bordeaux, Kennel + Schmenger NOVA - Trainers - silber/schwarz/grau,

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    Holly

    Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456999JU, TOM TAILOR DENIM Ankle boots - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Pieces PSDIARAM - Ankle boots - winetasting, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446081IT, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Camper Sneakers - Women Camper Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11366709XA, CLOSED MID HEEL BOOT - Classic ankle boots - cliff, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Tommy Hilfiger Mirror Metal Sling Back Flatf. - Sneakers - Women Tommy Hilfiger Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11539431KP, Crocs Mens Crocband Flipq Cerulean Blue/White 119Xwdgv, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Mizuno Sneakers - Women Mizuno Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495215IR, Högl Slip-ons - tobacco, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Softclox INKEN - Platform boots - barock black, Dune London WIDE FIT WIDE FIT CASANDRAA - Classic heels - brown, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Puma TSUGI JUN - Trainers - black/peach beige/white, Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers - Women Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11474610TL,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  7. 9
    Kathy

    Kenneth Cole New York Mens Rack N Roll Brown 757Nbgyz, Gabor Winter boots - anthrazit, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11502346HH, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11317742QF, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
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    Kathy

    Asics Tiger LYTE-TRAINER - Trainers - forrest,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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