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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540142TX, Salomon CROSSAMPHIBIAN SWIFT - Watersports shoes - black/phantom/peach nectar, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Mens Air Max Excellerate 3 Running Shoesk University Red/Metallic Silver/Black 731Miewp, Vidorreta Sneakers - Women Vidorreta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469358WG,

Now,KIOMI Ankle boots - black, Nike Sportswear CLASSIC CORTEZ - Trainers - black/anthracite/metallic red bronze/phantom, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDr. Martens VEGAN FLORA CHELSEA BOOT - Classic ankle boots - black felix, Louis Garneau Womens Terra Mtb Black 045Eoytt, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11392696FA, Mjus Sneakers - Women Mjus Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11419260WO, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Tosca Blu Shoes Sneakers - Women Tosca Blu Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11468189XQ, Reebok Classic Trainers - banana/white,

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    Holly

    Nike Sportswear EXP-X14 - Trainers - terra blush/white/light bone/pueblo brown/black, Pretty Ballerinas Boots - moka, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Sam Edelman Sneakers - Women Sam Edelman Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11342450AK, Cafènoir Sneakers - Women Cafènoir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11479071RM, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Kennel + Schmenger DINA - Slip-ons - schwarz, Billi Bi Slip-ons - taupe, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Zign High heels - black, Lazamani Sandals - grey, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Vagabond MARJA - Ankle boots - black, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11151395SC, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Mr & Mrs Yuo Sneakers - Women Mr & Mrs Yuo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11536876LF, Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers - Women Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11245393GC, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    San Marina DIELETTE - Clogs - noir, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11381655UM, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Pretty Ballerinas Over-the-knee boots - navy blue, Versus Versace Sneakers - Women Versus Versace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508391UV,
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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    River Island Platform boots - black, Even&Odd Slip-ons - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.FitFlop CHAI - Ankle boots - tumbled tan, Converse All Star Ct As Hi Crochet - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11216038GR, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11148664OQ, adidas Performance ULTRA BOOST UNCAGED - Neutral running shoes - ash pearl/chalk coral/clear orange, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Steve Madden MOLLIEE - Cowboy/Biker boots - black, George J. Love Sneakers - Women George J. Love Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11537281XB,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Lazamani T-bar sandals - gold,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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