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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Nike Sportswear CLASSIC CORTEZ - Trainers - black/anthracite/metallic red bronze/phantom, KIOMI Sandals - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.L'INTERVALLE DEVOLA - High heels - black, Vans CLASSIC SLIP-ON - Slip-ons - black,

Now,Panama Jack IGLOO - Classic ankle boots - bronze, Melissa VIVIENNE WESTWOOD BEACH SLIDE LEOPARD - Pool sliders - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sVictoria Sneakers - Women Victoria Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11578519FI, Dune London ESMARELDA - Trainers - pink, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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  1. Högl Classic heels - black,
    Rose

    flip*flop PLATEAU CROSS - Heeled mules - rose, Nike SB ZOOM STEFAN JANOSKI - Trainers - pink/sequoia/dark brown/medium brown/light brown, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
    Tommy Hilfiger OVERSIZED BUCKLE BOOT - Over-the-knee boots - black, Asics Tiger LYTE-TRAINER - Trainers - forrest, Under Armour SPEEDFORM INTAKE 2 - Neutral running shoes - ivory/ghost gray/metallic faded gold, Aldo Mens Shan Tan 819Ljdlj, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Puma Tsugi-Mi Monolith - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11490054FG, J. Renee Womens Fedelia Black 123Hoihf,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Nike Sportswear INTERNATIONALIST - Trainers - black/wheat gold/white, Converse ONE STAR PLATFORM OX VELVET - Trainers - black/egret, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Bottega Veneta Sneakers - Women Bottega Veneta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11365820HD, Chie Mihara JAULA - Platform boots - black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Gabor Platform heels - pazifik, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11197598NM, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Vagabond JOYCE - Classic ankle boots - purple, UMA PARKER Slip-ons - nero, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Pretty Ballerinas ANGELIS - Ballet pumps - cirella, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573881FS, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Vionic Womens Lydia Low Wedge Pumpr Merlot Croc 677Uwtyp, Donald J Pliner Womens Fawnw Light Bronze Metallic Mesh 503Ttltj, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Converse ONE STAR - Trainers - black, Miss KG FAUN - High heeled sandals - black, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Vans Ua Classic Slip-On Platform - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451976AT, adidas Originals GAZELLE - Trainers - grey two/footwear white,
    Y-3 Sneakers - Women Y-3 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11535491LU, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573564UV, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Markus Lupfer Sneakers - Women Markus Lupfer Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11505007TF, Buscemi Sneakers - Women Buscemi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11148198XD, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Giesswein Womens Tino Ww Rouge-Fuschia 804Aeasn, Just Cavalli Sneakers - Women Just Cavalli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11568150JG, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 6
    Angie

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  6. 7
    AS

    Dune London WIDE FIT WIDE FIT AURRORA - High heels - black, Toral Ankle boots - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498318HD, New Balance ML574 - Trainers - sedonasage, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Smeet Sneakers - Women Smeet Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580733UJ, Pura Lopez High heels - face, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

  7. 8
    marymary

    Dune London ESCAPE - Trainers - blush, Teva ORIGINAL UNIVERSAL - Walking sandals - black, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseurss.Oliver Boat shoes - navy, New Balance MSX90 - Trainers - black, .
    Fitters SESY - Classic heels - black, Skechers Sneakers - Women Skechers Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11229387IX, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers - Women Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11329001NQ, Nike Sportswear INTERNATIONALIST - Trainers - muted bronze/summit white/wheat gold,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  8. 9
    Kathy

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  9. 13
    Kathy

    Pura Lopez Classic heels - black,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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