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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Nike Mens Lunartempo 2 Running Shoesc Racer Blue/Black/White/Photo Blue 705Kasze, Salomon SENSE RIDE - Trail running shoes - blue bird/deep lagoon/navy blazer, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Keen Womens Clearwater Cnxp Hot Coral/Drizzle 180Ghefj, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11578350JX,

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    Rose

    Shoe The Bear ELLA - Trainers - white, By Malene Birger MAY - Ankle boots - silver, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Vans Mens Classic Slip On Shoesn Blue Croc 940Gnher, Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11569586VJ,

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    Holly

    Cole Haan Mens Grant Canoe Camp Mocx Washed Indigo Suede 878Vfhzx, Dondup Sneakers - Women Dondup Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11480140IE, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Lumberjack Sneakers - Women Lumberjack Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11514634CH, Onitsuka Tiger Sneakers - Women Onitsuka Tiger Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11558418GG, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Bianco Slip-ons - red, Pier One High heeled sandals - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Saint Laurent Sneakers - Women Saint Laurent Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44821755MD, Nike Classic Cortez Premium - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11452756JN, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Dolce Vita Womens Agusta Gold 807Orufl, Man's/Woman's Mephisto Helen Mix On sale, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? MAI PIÙ SENZA High heeled sandals - pink, mtng NEW BOBO - Ankle boots - karma black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Roxy Womens Ventura Iir Black 1 466Lijex, KIOMI Ballet pumps - black, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Jessica Simpson PORTALYNN - High heels - black, Man/Woman Drew Excel precious boutique,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Peter Kaiser HETA - Boots - lupo, Maripé Classic ankle boots - delice pepper, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Ash Womens Lazert Softy Black/Python Stone 639Dtexq, Under Armour SPEEDFORM INTAKE 2 - Neutral running shoes - ghost gray/tint/flushed pink, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Nike SB ZOOM STEFAN JANOSKI - Slip-ons - blue void/yellow ochre, Le Village Sneakers - Women Le Village Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11448388TX,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Pony Sneakers - Women Pony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496523QG,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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