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Evan,

DC Shoes CHELSEA - Trainers - dark navy, Adidas Womens A.T. 360.2 Primag Dark Grey/Black 049Ucito, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.New Look CARE - Boots - tan, Tsd12 Sneakers - Women Tsd12 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567485ST, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Mother Of Pearl Sneakers - Women Mother Of Pearl Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11518989AJ, Gabor Classic heels - copper, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nine West Womens Qualityf Gold Synthetic 707Hobbu, Hi-Tec BANDERA LITE MID WP WOMENS - Walking boots - stormy weather/grey/skygrey,

Now,Selected Femme SFDINA - Trainers - red, Colors Of California Sneakers - Women Colors Of California Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486507IE, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPhilippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11564910KK, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR BIG EYELETS - High-top trainers - pure platinum, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    ALDO NAVEN - High-top trainers - light pink, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496798MV, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Noclaim ZEN - Trainers - platino, Pepe Jeans Sneakers - Women Pepe Jeans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11308435EH,

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    Holly

    Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11520280DO, Zign Platform boots - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Soya Fish Sneakers - Women Soya Fish Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11561490WP, Colors Of California Sneakers - Women Colors Of California Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11566859KT, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    LEMON JELLY SAPHIRE - Platform sandals - baby rose, Joshua*S Sneakers - Women Joshua*S Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11499904EL, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Soft Style Womens Rosalynx Mauve Chalk 848Yeyzr, New Balance WL574 - Trainers - beige, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    LK Bennett DAISIE - High heeled sandals - khaki, Stokton Sneakers - Women Stokton Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11539459TF, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Vagabond KATLIN - Slip-ons - orange, Nike Air Max Thea - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11210446XQ, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Reebok Womens Ventilator Cg Speckled Sneakers Multi 725Oolfp, Replay Sneakers - Women Replay Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493348IS, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Adidas Originals Womens Zx 500 Og W Cendre/Grdemg/Orsola 635Dvtdc, Helia Platform boots - nero, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Colmar Sneakers - Women Colmar Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11553378KH, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11403658BQ, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    MJUS Sandals - jeans, CAFèNOIR Platform boots - nero, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.El Naturalista RICEFIELD - Ankle strap ballet pumps - wood toast, Sanita MATRIX - Clogs - grey, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, ecco DAMARA - Sandals - rose dust/coral, Fred de la Bretoniere Platform sandals - dark blue, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Chie Mihara KIONOA - Classic heels - black/lustou asfalto/ginza oro/tacon blanco, Unisa CASTILLA - High heeled sandals - black,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Saucony Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508682TG,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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