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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.ASICS GEL KAYANO 25 - Stabilty running shoes - diva pink/mojave, Call it Spring UMOINNA - Platform sandals - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.I Love Shoes Womens Paisleyk Micro Nude 504Rgcoo, Pedro Miralles Classic heels - rojo,

Now,Clarks LINVALE JERICA - Classic heels - navy, Vans OLD SKOOL - Trainers - cress green/true white, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sRuco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11218948CR, Alma en Pena High heeled sandals - white, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580914JT, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11138548SM, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.O.X.S. Sneakers - Women O.X.S. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457765NI, Nine West Womens Jiltedi Red/Red Leather 934Iseiu,

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    Holly

    Kanna ERLEA - Platform sandals - mostaza, Missoni Sneakers - Women Missoni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11339886QV, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Gentleman/Lady Kamik Jennifer Interest, Naot Footwear Womens Dignitye Shiny Black Leather/Brushed Black Leather/Black Stretch 327Laouj, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Ted Baker EMMHA - Slip-ons - pink, Ras Sneakers - Women Ras Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11511475OE, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Gabor Classic heels - pazifik, adidas Originals STAN SMITH - Trainers - white, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Erika Rocchi Cowboy/Biker boots - nero, Kenneth Cole New York Mens Fancy Meet-In Usy Black 842Sovlz, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Madden Girl ROONEYY - High heeled ankle boots - blush, s.Oliver Classic ankle boots - taupe, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Camper BEETLE - Classic ankle boots - charcoal, Liu Jo Jeans MAXY - Trainers - black/ruby, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580924QM, Buttero® Sneakers - Women Buttero® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11537285PB,
    Ecco Sport Womens Biom Ultra Quest Plusy Warm Grey/Warm Grey/Fanfare Synthetic/Yabuck/Decoration 232, Seychelles Womens Treat Yourself Yellow 727Uajyc, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Pepe Jeans VERONA W WINNER - Trainers - black, Fiori Di Picche Sneakers - Women Fiori Di Picche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44959367RN, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?PERLATO High heels - noir, Men/Women Native Shoes Jefferson Remember, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Coco Et Abricot Womens Donilo Bijoux 246Hmwml, Donna Carolina Over-the-knee boots - nero, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11509268KD, Gabor WIDE FIT - Cowboy/Biker boots - ocean, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Pollini Sneakers - Women Pollini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11448667AH, Alberto Zago High heeled boots - gaietto, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Reebok Cl Lthr - Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11182413JM, Hunter Womens Original Sandale Clementine 776Eajjl,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Claudia By Isaberi Sneakers - Women Claudia By Isaberi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11441295SE,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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