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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Tosca Blu BERGEN - Trainers - anthracite, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554850ST, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Even&Odd Trainers - brown, Merrell BARE ACCESS FLEX - Trainers - rose red,

Now,Lauren Ralph Lauren BURNISHED LALETTA - Ankle boots - black, Shoe The Bear CECI - Ankle boots - dark grey, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sadidas Performance TERREX AX2R GTX W - Trail running shoes - core black/ash green, Guess Womens Paiva White Eva 950Zrqid, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    KIOMI Slip-ons - beige, SPM IRIN - Sandals - silver/metallic crack, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Women Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11351388TO, Mammut HUECO LOW GTX® WOMEN - Hiking shoes - dark atoll/grey,

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    Holly

    Katie Grand Loves Hogan Sneakers - Women Katie Grand Loves Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11298442NA, Adidas Mens Combat Speed 4Q Black Collegiate Red White 249Pxmls, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Everybody Slip-ons - glove blue, Carvela LARK - Mules - nude, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Sofft Womens Dallass Tan Montana 965Rypst, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11268856QM, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11527574ED, Puma BASKET HEART PATENT - Trainers - iron gate, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11471406BD, Bruno Bordese Sneakers - Women Bruno Bordese Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534663JQ, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Tamaris High heels - grey, Diadora M.SHINDANO 6 - Trainers - teaberry/anemone, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Versace Sneakers - Women Versace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11419772AN, Melissa BAJA EAST COSMIC PYTHON - Pool sliders - blush marble, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.P448 Sneakers - Women P448 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456913WI, The White Brand® Flamingo - Sneakers - Women The White Brand® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11489626DQ,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Clarks Mens Tilden Freem Black 388Apoof, AllSaints CHERRY - Trainers - white, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Vaneli Womens Wanita Black Nappa/Black Smack Patent 745Vfyin, Puma Puma Platform Reset Wn's - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11225157WC, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 7
    AS

    Marco Tozzi High heeled sandals - light grey, Nike Mens Roshe Rund Black Metallic White 670Kouab, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Rubber Soul Sneakers - Women Rubber Soul Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457784AO, La Blanc Sneakers - Women La Blanc Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11524984VC, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, New Balance 996 Classic - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11341521CA, Gabor High heels - antikrosa, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Gioseppo Mules - oro, Shy By Arvid Yuki Sneakers - Women Shy By Arvid Yuki Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11324650SB,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  7. 9
    Kathy

    Paloma Barceló Ankle boots - black, Selected Femme DEBBIE - Trainers - silver, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Crime London Sneakers - Women Crime London Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465364CR, RIVIERAS CLASSIC - Slip-ons - grey, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
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    Kathy

    The North Face STORM STRIKE WP - Winter boots - black/sedona sage grey,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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